Twin Flames: Runner & Chaser stages – How long before union? -

Runner & Chaser phases are something that occurs with most divine partner connections.

This is something that cannot be avoided as divine partners including twin flames reach a divine union.

The union is extreme and it does require that both twin souls be ready for one another. They are merging together as one and as they live their life, they need to eliminate all that has accumulated with excess baggage and negativity.

What's the difference between a twin flame and a t soulmate Connection?Twin flames are part of the soul connection collective.We have many Soulmates, they are sent to us.You may have a deep emotional connection that feels intense. Soulmates can be friends or romantic partners, many times even family members. Soulmates can understand each other on the same level.Sometimes even share past lives together. Soulmates will come and go into your life, many times mimicking what feels like a twin flame. Soulmates can also be your divine counterpart.The twin flame is an intense connection. Also, a part of you as it mirrors your soul. You are deeply connected to the core. Twin flames just like regular twins can feel each other’s energy and pain.As soon as you meet your twin flame, you know that this person is going to change your life forever. Sometimes twin flames can feel chaotic energy because of the fear they carry in a past situation, creating the runner and chaser phases.Twin flames know each other more than any other being in this world.They are the sole mirror of one another’s insecurities and energy. They can reflect on each other‘s emotions. If they are not ready to face their own fear, they can go on through lifetimes trying to come to terms with their own demons.Twin flames always end up together in the long term. Many times it can go through a lifetime trying to re-establish the connection. But they always find each other back home.Many times twin flames can be faced with separation. This pain can feel abandonment energies and trigger off past emotional conflicts.The separation is actually to help them release negativities in a longer serve them in order to come into divine union.The twin flame separation can bring benefits to the relationship in the long term.When they need to work on themselves, there are things that they need to release, and being together would only cause chaos in negativities between them too.Twin flames need to analyze their mistakes and how to correct them. Working on themselves simultaneously, they are able to find peace and serenity, preparing and creating balance in their life prior to divine Union.Many times separation can take a while, yes it can take years. Not everyone wants to hear this but everyone who is dealing with a twin flame separation or has their own soul journey. By achieving the union part of their journey, it’s only the beginning.There’s so much more work they need to work on with each other. Ultimately becoming a power couple. Adjusting to one another’s needs and knowing what one another needs to stay stable and grounded.Everything that happens in their lives, is actually a purpose for one another to help each other. This is a soul divine union mission, both twins are preparing to release and surrender energies that no longer serve them.There are many different stages when it comes to twin flames. The first stage is when you first realize there is somebody out there that is going to change your life forever.The second stage is when you actually find this person. The third stage is when you both can amplify each other on a higher level, getting to know one another. Sometimes these stages can also trigger the Runner and Chaser phases, creating separation as I mentioned earlier.You may wonder if a soulmate connection is better than a twin flame? Actually, this is not a choice that you can make, it is who you are destined to be with before you are incarnated. Yes, some people don’t meet their twin flame in a lifetime and many will know them right at the very beginning.Sometimes twin flame relationships can be toxic. Yes, you are mirroring your twin’s weaknesses and negativities.This is when separation is required for the spiritual awakening and to grow spiritually.

Twin flames face a series of life lessons.

For example releasing anger, abandonment issues, jealousy, hate, and emotional fear-based energies.Just a few of the old past wounds that they both carry without realizing.

As they become ready, they are both in total partnership with one another to help each other work on themselves simultaneously in order to find themselves back home (Reunion).

When there is a twin flame separation

It is very painful and it seems that everything is lost in life. The connection that they feel can seem to trigger those past wounds I talked about earlier.

Many times your twin will try to detach themselves from their connection. There may be some harsh words denying the fact that there is a connection and/or any love between them two.

Soulmates/Twin Flame Runner & Chaser stages – How long before union?

The twin flame separation is a very extreme emotional pain.

There is a compelling spiritual reason why it is all happening this way. This is not failure within a relationship, and though it is very painful.

This is a process of understanding and navigating the energy prior to the divine union with your twin flame.

Many people find it to be difficult and try to give up by cutting the cords as I mentioned in a previous article. But it is literally impossible to disconnect from your other half.

Trying to find other ways to cope with this Runner & Chaser phases have been a priority for me and the good news is that it not a permanent phase!

Valentine’s Day is a special loving holiday. Although Valentine’s Day should not be celebrated one day out of the year. It actually should be 365 days a year. There are many people who dread the commercial side of it all and the emotional energy it brings. Especially to anyone who is having relationship issues or separated from the divine partner. Combined with mercury retrograde, Valentine’s Day can bring a lot of nostalgic energy so a person. This can trigger emotional energy from the past. For a lot of people Valentine’s Day February 14th almost feels like prom night for an adult. And you have no date on your date or didn’t show up. In other words he can bring disappointment for many Valentine’s Day is supposed to be the day for love. Valentine’s Day is about loving yourself and taking time out for you and the people who are dear to you. Valentine’s Day should be expressed to loved ones 365 days a year. Everyone wants love but can’t forget the true meaning behind it with Valentine’s Day. This year make Valentine’s Day a day for loving you! Healing Make a complete list of people you love and appreciate in your life. Also everything that you’re grateful for and the blessings in your life. Writing this down and the details on what you love about them. Keeping this list handy anytime when you feel emotionally stressed. Loving you Making plans and creating an event for Valentine’s Day. I know we can’t go to the many places we would like during this time. But try making a special meal or baking a cake. Do something extra special because you deserve it! Try to take some time make an event with love ones who are four through video chat. Although we can’t spend time with the people we love if they are far away and with social distancing. We can make the most out of the gadgets we have that can reach out to anyone around the world. Don’t blame yourself You did not do anything wrong. Everything you have done in your life, happened for a reason. If you’re finding yourself asking when you’re going to find your twin flame or soulmate? Turn it into embracing your current situation if you’re single or married and just love who you are. This is an important time to prepare for your divine counterparts (soulmate or twin flames) and make changes for the future. There are many people who hate their material status single or married. The grass is always greener on the other side. Eating healthy Everything that we eat is who we are and it shows up on our bodies. Whatever you’re feeling during the day it’s important to be mindful on your eating pattern. Try eating more cleaner going back to the basics and cooking your food or preparing them yourself. This is a time to also try something new, add more vegetables and fruits to your meal. You can be creative, and find interesting recipes on the Internet. Exercise Exercise and getting some physical activity is so beneficial when it comes to feeling good. You are releasing endorphins in your brain but you’re also letting go of stress that you accumulate. There are many different types of exercise that are right for you. Ask your doctor if there is certain activities that you’re limited to. Walking is always a wonderful option. I love all types of fitness and group exercise. One of my favorites is Zumba, it can put a real smile on your face with all the dancing to the fun songs. Find something that works for you and just do it! Meditation This is a perfect time to explore your spirituality. Raising your vibration in order to stay grounded and uplifted. It’ll also help bring in the love that you need in your life. First visualize everything that you want and write it down in a journal. Keeping this handy at all times to reflect back. Also making a vision board as I’ve mentioned many times in the past can help with affirmations and visualizations. Visualizing and praying for love is the key for manifesting your dreams with love. Pay attention to signs We are continuously trying to move forward. And being shown messages through numbers and signs will pop up on her soul journey. This is part of the inspiration coming from above to help us and guide us on every level. These messages don’t necessarily have a specific meaning but they do have a potential for more to come. The best thing to do is write them down and meditate over them. This will help increase the energies that are being given and interpreted through a spiritual reading. Paying attention to songs that you may hear in random places, though you may know this song very well, there may be a hidden message behind it. Always believe in love, the magic is within you, but if you are not focused. You will be losing out on the most beautiful light inside you! Valentine’s Day can be a very magical experience, not just with a divine partner but with Family and friends who are dear to you.

No matter how long it takes, it feels as if it is way too long inside the separation period.

A very common question is how long is the average wait time for twin flames in separation with the Runner & Chaser stages.

Each twin flame relationship needs to go to their own experience and each one is unique. Many will give a timeframe of between 1 to 3 years.

Although that can be true but not necessarily happens for everyone. No one knows the actual time.

Many times there are several years involved, even decades before they do finally find themselves in Union.

I know this is not something we all want to hear but we may have to accept it. This will all depend on how much work they are doing on themselves and how advanced spiritually they are.

When they are constantly fighting and denying the fact that there is a spiritual connection between them both, this may prolong their union, trying to explain the twin flames connection could make it worse.

The Twin flame connection is extreme and very powerful. But after a while, the energy seems to have a shift and it feels almost toxic, associated with drama. The spiritual bond is very powerful and no other connection can feel as intense. This does not change. However, when there is work that needs to be done, the energy can become very drastic and full of drama. Many would call it toxic, but it’s what they have accumulated from within that creates the toxic feeling. This also can have the same effect with certain types of Soulmates as well; many soulmates do mimic the Twin flame energy. The Twin flame has a spiritual magnetic pulling energy that makes it almost impossible to resist. They can both feel the energy on a 5D level. This can be scary for many people as you only know this person for a few moments of your life and they actually tune in to the essence of your Soul. The intense strength of Twin flames is so powerful that it can stir up emotions, many times not very positive. When they have wounds and/or karmic past ties, they all have to be corrected, which leads to a lot of emotional purging and clearing of their Soul. This can be extreme as severe. When there is one who isn’t awake and the other can see the blockages that they need to move forward. This can create the Runner & Chaser phases. Internal conflict from their soul makes it impossible to be with one another while they are in a correction phase. Until they correct and release, it can feel like a nightmare for many. Remember that this is only temporary and nothing will disconnect a Twin flame connection. Runners & Chasers can be reversed, but they are both running from themselves and the energy itself. Unfortunately, this can go on for many years which creates anxiety, negativity and a feeling of toxic energy! But it’s not actually a toxic connection, it’s just what they have accumulated and need to release in order to come together into a divine union. Twin flames will always feel the presence of their other half near them. Nothing, as I mentioned, will disconnect them, even if they are with other relationships, far away in other countries or completely distant and shunned from each other. Twin flames will somehow find themselves back together. Twin flames have a powerful bond. It is beautiful but it can be a very intensely painful experience. So why would anybody want this? It’s not something we can choose or decide, this is a soul mission and they are sent with each other in this life and others to correct and empower one another, doing the greater good for humanity. The experience is extreme and intense, they always find each other and find the love that they once shared. Many ask how to cut or sever the ties because of the intensity. But there is no way to disconnect or separate, it would only make things worse, in the long run, trying to deny the connection. Trying to nudge or bring it back when they are not ready will feel like a toxic shock, as they both need to work on themselves a little deeper. Everyone's situation is unique and different. There are many reasons why do these types of divine connections go through so much pain and agony trying to be together. Soulmates and Twin flames are sent together with their destiny as one, along with the goal to work together to find peace and balance inside one body. Getting past the drama and toxic energy can be a challenge, but if you start recognizing the truth within yourself, you will find it is easier than you thought. Having self-control and patience is the key to love and blossom with Twin Flames. Many times, the ego can’t take control and be apart from your other half and can actually create a drama of pain any emotional conflict. Soulmates and Twin flames have a deeper understanding of each other spiritually; more than they realize. Once they open their eyes, they can see each other for who they are and can live in harmony. When they are going through the separation phases, they may sound like something very magical, "it's too good to be true". The energy is continuously trying to work themselves back together in perfect harmony. What happens when one is not ready? Even when they are separated, Twin flames continuously need to work on themselves with having love and total gratitude for everything in their lives. It is the only way for the energy to shift and come into a divine union.

Often the Runner is the one running from their own inner truth.

When meeting your twin, you’re actually looking at a soul mirror and at first, it may be the honeymoon stages but then it turns into an extreme fear of facing their authentic self.

There are many different life lessons that each will go through and not necessarily all the same. You may not understand why they can’t get it and they won’t understand why they are compelled to an energy that they are afraid of.

The Awakening process with Twin flames (also Soulmates). A Divine union is the ultimate goal for Soulmates and Twin flames. Before the Union can take place, there is a process. It is a soul journey that can involve meeting many different types of karmic connections that can be associated with toxic and chaotic energy. Some call this a false twin, but the truth is, it’s actually a karmic energy that we must all experience. These types of karmic relationships may include energies with low self-esteem and worth, some may be filled with addictions and obsessions, only for the fact that these issues are associated with us in some type of way. Or you may be involved with someone who is with a karmic relationship, they are the one in that case that need to purge, release and surrender. Karmic connections are actually preparing us and helping us to release these issues in order to connect with our divine soul partner. Twin flames can also bring energetic forces inside of us that we have been holding onto and that we are not aware of. The reflection of ourselves with our Twin can help us to find our spiritual path and bring us closer to our higher self. Helping us to love ourselves and others unconditionally. Being able to attract abundance with love, self-worth and esteem. Although Twin flame relationships are all unique and sacred, there is a pattern that tends to happen with divine unions. During the process, you will dig deeper into every level and aspect of your energy. Old wounds, grief, guilt and shame, also beliefs that no longer serve a purpose in your life will upgrade and level you up to a higher version of you!! This is your soul connecting to your higher self and remembering yourself as one with your Twin flame, spiritually knowing your soul‘s purpose with one another. You will be able to see each other in a Cosmic Star Seed, helping you both to ascend higher, to a 5D level. The Twin flame journey, begins separately as they work on themselves. They are both learning how to release and surrender internal conflict, finding their spiritual path in order to bring themselves closer into union. This is all part of their soul purpose with merging together as one with self love and unconditional love for others. Their whole life is actually about preparing for this divine union. Prior to meeting, they may find themselves with a string of negative relationships filled with drama, which they need to learn valuable lessons to grow from them. After meeting your Twin flame, things will make more sense. You will begin to find and see things with clarity. Thought you still may not be ready for union, there is a preparation prior to the union as you work on yourself simultaneously. The biggest challenging stage is to surrender! Releasing and letting go of emotional and internal conflict is the key to be able to come into balance and grounding. Letting go of ego and learning how to actually love yourself can be extremely painful and difficult.; knowing that you are not controlling the situation but you are in control of your soul center. Letting go and releasing but at the same time allowing the Universe and divine timing. Surrendering is not about letting go of your Twin flame, it’s about surrendering the ego. Trying to let go and detach from the situation could make matters worst.

Will your twin flame or Soulmate ever come back?

You will no doubt miss your twin and always look for ways on how to either cut ties or speed the process. The whole point of the separation stages is not just coming into a Union to find true bliss. But it is for you both to find your authentic selves. Coming to unity into consciousness awareness.

Twin flames will even go through the separation process even if they are not running. Both twins are actually working on their healing with awakening.

They are bringing themselves into alignment with their higher selves in order to find their true centers as one.

This is the type of soulmate from the Soul connection group that, is actually your soul's other half. Your soul is constantly compelled by magnetic force in order to come to a divine union. Twin flames are connected on many different types of levels and this includes the physical, mental, spiritual and emotional energy. Yes we have more than one soulmate, they can be anyone in our lives even your spouse, they can also mimic the symptoms of the intensity in a twin flame connection. Soulmate energy you are connected spiritually and also energetically that constantly grows. The term soulmates and twin flames are commonly used when it comes to romantic love relationships. They both can connect to a more deeper and passionate level with each other. Many times we meet different People who are not our Soulmate but to help us move forward. This is the reason why it’s never a good idea to go searching for your ideal Soulmate or twin flame. This is the time to let your heart guide you to the one that calls out directly to you and let nature take it’s course. You are destined to be with someone and it doesn’t necessarily have to be your twin flame to find everlasting happiness. TWIN FLAMES THE MIRROR OF OUR SOULS REFLECTION They can feel our deepest emotions and fears along with the needs and etc. many times they are going through what we call the "Runner and Chaser Stage". What is a runner and Chaser dynamic? This is a certain phase that both Twin flames and Soulmates can go through when they are resisting or fearing their own emotional insecurities and issues. Soulmates too can also experience the runner and chaser stage as well as twin flames. Many think it’s only twin flames. The runner can run for sometime, while the chaser will wait for the runner to come back. It’s not necessarily they are chasing them, many don’t like to hear that word that they are chasing. But it’s true, its actually the one that is more aware and awake where the other is not awake yet. There’s many reasons why they run and a list can go on. But the main reason is because they are experiencing a previous fear issues with emotions, abandonment, hurt in love, old wounds and relationships that ended badly. AS THERE ARE SO MANY REASONS WHY THEY RUN, THE HEALING NEEDS TO MANIFEST WITH BOTH RUNNER AND CHASER. Most of the time the runner does not even know why they are running but they’re actually running from something inside themselves. Where the chaser will not understand, if this love is so BEAUTIFUL why are they running? This can lead to the chaser trying to get the runner to see the truth and come back to them. Trying to nudge them with communicate and get their attention (on social media - Facebook, instagram snapchat and etc.), can actually do the opposite effect and make them run further. The runner and Chase are both have to be ready for this divine union. They both are actually in a healing stages that they need to work on themselves simultaneously to perfect their soul centered come together into the divine union. IT IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR BOTH TWINS TO RELEASE AND SURRENDER ANY TYPE OF PAST EMOTIONAL AND OLD WOUNDS. The runner needs to awaken when they are ready. They will be ready to come back to their other half. What if a twin flame runner is in a bad relationship with someone else? As we all have free will and choices, both runner and chasers can be dating and even married to other people. As painful as it may be. This is part of their soul journey and what they need to do in order to work on themselves. Soulmates and twin flames need to work through these issues on their own. The best thing to do is let them find their true center and a awaken when they are open to receive. Predicting a timeframe on when you will meet your true soulmate or twin flame is not advised during a Psychic reading. Since they are very unpredictable and with free will no one can predict the actual times that they do find each other. Especially when there is work that is necessary prior to the divine union. MANY TIMES A TYPICAL NON-SPIRITUAL ENERGY RELATIONSHIP WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE BEFORE YOU MEET "THE ONE" THIS IS A PART OF THEIR SOUL JOURNEY PRIOR TO THEIR UNION. When their levels reflect on one another, they can come bind together as one soul. This will be the ultimate divine soulmate relationship. The twin flame connection will reunite when they are both completely open and ready to be with each other. Divine soulmates in the beginning know that they both have a mission although they may be confused about their feelings. This is all mental perfect and empower their lives that they will become the ultimate divine power couple.

You may wonder why they need to go through separation to find us?

The physical separation is actually motivating them both to work even that much harder to come into a reunion.

The separation stage isn’t always caused by the Runner & Chaser stagesAs they both are healing on themselves individually and simultaneously.

As they are meant to be separated otherwise, they would never be able to tolerate one another physically as a couple just yet.

Many times they are total opposites of one another and their personalities would not be harmonious for that time. This forces twin souls to work that much harder and find their authentic selves. Helping them communicate to their soul exchange telepathically.

Full blood moon eclipse in Taurus will always have an effect on everyone in some type of way.This will be a Full moon representing the Energy with intense emotions.Spiritual and Psychic energy is amplified. It will have a great impact and powerful influence on Soulmates and Twin flames.Keeping in mind that this is a time to release any emotional Energy or feelings that you may have accumulated. In return to inviting new beginnings and changes, you must release and let go in order to start over.There is a full moon lunar eclipse, 11/08/2022. The energies with emotions will be off the charts. The eclipse will intensify love relationships, especially soulmates and twin flames. If you are going through a difficult time or separation. The energy will feel a little stronger than other Full moons. Especially for those born under Taurus and have Taurus in their chart. A new moon represents setting intentions and a full moon eclipse represents releasing. Keeping the lunar cycle will help amplify Soul connections and understand the energies that accompany these dynamic relationships.The Full moon Eclipse is a time to clear away past negativities and focus on positivity.Now that we are in autumn, it’s an excellent time to start planting your seeds and set new goals. Make a list of everything you would like to surrender and a new list of planting seeds.This is the time to focus on the light inside you and start planting positive seeds to open yourself to a new beginning and start fresh.This full moon is packed with opportunities and changes. In a love relationship, it can be an extremely intense feeling, as the energy is much higher than in any other type of Soul connection. This includes Soulmates and Twin flames connections.Being aware that many relationships go through a very intense cycle during this time. It’s time to let go of certain negativity. This many times can awaken past old wounds that need to be healed.During this time it’s best to avoid any deep discussions that can lead to an argument with somebody close to you. Reflecting more on the current area that may need your attention instead of digging deep into something from the past.The Beaver full moon is a very emotional moon that can bring a feeling of sadness along with intensity with happiness all at the same time. The powerful sign of Taurus also intensifies psychic and spiritual energies along with enhancing your abilities. There is transformation and as it releases negativity it replenishes it with spiritual growth. The full moon eclipse can be felt three days prior and three days post the full moon. The sun in Scorpio and moon in Taurus, which can create more of an intensity with the energy of this eclipse.The shadows can finally come into the light and less is associated with the transformation. Facing your fears and opening your heart is the key.You may also experience a feeling that your moods are constantly changing. Being aware that you can be triggered and stirred up what’s the smallest thing. Being mindful with your friends and family is the key. It is a great time to reestablish and focus on your goals.Seeking spiritual guidance with a psychic reading during a full moon eclipse can help learn the truth and understanding of life situations.Also, the ideal time to meditate in prayer with letting go and using a quartz crystal.During a full moon eclipse, always give gratitude in order to ignite a higher vibration frequency into your life, loving yourself and everyone close to you.Always know that you have so much love to give and receive. Always focus on the positive as you release and surrender during a full moon Lunar Eclipse.If you have a question about your relationship. I’m offering one free question to new readers and subscribers Just fill out the form below. To be fair one question per person only.

Ego or narcissist behavior?

Yes, this can trigger off a lot of emotional pain and sadness. Many times, one twin would be running into a narcissistic pattern and the other one, the Chaser, would be becoming codependent to the situation.

This is when ego is actually the culprit for both twins causing them both to release the mask. You hear that release and surrender is necessary, and so it is. #1 it’s Ego.

It can trigger off negative emotions that may bring up an emotional conflict that will interfere while working on themselves.

Trying to find peace while going through separation stages.

Finding your soul serenity will help you come to peace inside yourself. As you work on yourself, you will realize more that your higher self is trying to help you find eternal peace with yourself.

The same goes for your twin. Although the separation phase feels like it’s taking longer than it should, actually it’s all within divine timing.

Meditation is the Key and raising your vibration will help you to find your soul center as you reciprocate the energy.

Runner & Chaser phases are temporary, it’s all about letting go and self-learning on how to love yourself completely. It is totally worth it in the end!

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