Twin flames: Challenges Prior To Union

Published on by Ann Elizabeth
There are many different spiritual situations for the reasons why separation happens, prior to the divine union with Twin Flames (soulmates). This is not a failure with your twin flame. Yes it is brutal and painful to the core. This is a process that is necessary in order for these divine souls to reunite and come into a divine permanent union as "ONE". Many have tried to cut the ties, disconnect and try to forget about their Divine Soulmate or twin flame. Yet never have been successful, this is all part of the spiritual journey that they are working on simultaneously on themselves and with each other. Though sometimes it can take years until they finally come to the reunion. YOU MAY ASK; HOW DO I MOVE ON FROM MY TWIN FLAME? I’ve been asked this question and unfortunately there is no way to completely cut the ties and disconnect. Everyone’s union is unique and each one needs to work on themselves by releasing and surrendering negativity said do not serve a purpose in their life. This is the first step to to shift back into alignment and go to a place of reflection to help determine where you are at spiritually. Soulmates can also mimic the same pattern inside themselves as well as twin flames. Although you may hear about divine soulmates and Twin flames coming into the divine union. It comes to a point when you start to wonder about yourself; why it seems to be taking longer than it has for others. This is a time never to compare your situation with anyone else’s. You would be surprised on how this can affect you with your spiritual growth and sometimes there is still more work that is necessary in order for you to heal your soul center. Although hearing about others may be motivation, not to give up keep trying and you may hear about what others went through during their soul journey. This is all part of your soul mission with your divine partner. When there is separation with twin flames. It is not hopeful for a reunion. The divine union is it different vibration and you were not able to feel it when you are separated from your divine soulmate. This actually lowers your vibration, that is reciprocated with your twin flame. Leaving you both in sadness, hurt and feeling the effects of negativity from your past wounds. This is a time to release and surrender all that maybe affecting him from coming to the divine union with your twin flame. Holding onto past emotional insecurities, can hinder and prolong the divine union with your twin. CAN TWIN FLAMES BE TOGETHER? Everyone is different and there’s so many different twin soul couples out there in the world. There is the runner and chaser that happens during the separation. Yes the roles can be reversed, as many of you know I was to a runner and would not except what energies I was feeling from my divine Soulmate. Although I was very much aware of soulmates, Twin flames and spiritual connections, I had to experience what they go through in order to understand it even better. THE FACT IS BOTH TWINS SOUL COUPLES NEED TO BE READY Many think that it’s always the runner who is not ready but the chaser is and this is totally incorrect. Actually they both are not ready because they are still working on themselves equally simultaneously at the same time. There are many reasons why twin flames go through the yo-yo effect of coming together and disconnecting and then back again, they are sorting through previous issues but looking at themselves as if they were looking through a mirror. They are compelled to each other, so there is no one in this world that can really say that they can’t be together, since there is a constant magnetic force trying to pull them together no matter what their situation and where they’re at in their lives. WHEN TWIN FLAMES MEET something starts to change and I’m more spiritual thought. The divine connection is intense and it opens doors to new beginnings what inside themselves. This is the main reason why the runner starts to run. The vibrations become extremely high and their love is unconditional. This is the main reason why divine soulmates need to be ready in order to come to the final union as one. Many times it is in this lifetime or can you skip to the next (this happens when one passes away), we don’t know when the exact timing is. But it’s part of the soul journey that they are on, and constantly merging to ascension. It all happens with Divine timing and being ready and prepared for what is to come. Working on yourself is the soul purpose that we go through this twin flame journey. But first we need to understand that Ego can get in the way and this can happen to both twin flames. It’s all a divine purpose to get through any challenges and fulfill life lessons. Yes we all can survive this spiritual journey. There may be a lot of purging and releasing involved, but it’s part divine union.

The spiritual union involves certain challenges that Twin flames and Divine Soulmates experience.

This may be a very confusing subject on why Twin flames go through these difficulties.

I’ve been asked several times about it and I just want to give a little clarity on what exactly they experience.

There are many different types of Soulmates, and Twin flame is part of the soul connection Collective.

This is the type of soulmate  from the Soul connection group that, is actually your soul's other half. Your soul is constantly compelled by magnetic force in order to come to a divine union. Twin flames are connected on many different types of levels and this includes the physical, mental, spiritual and emotional energy. Yes we have more than one soulmate, they can be anyone in our lives even your spouse, they can also mimic the symptoms of the intensity in a twin flame connection. Soulmate energy you are connected spiritually and also energetically that constantly grows. The term soulmates and twin flames are commonly used when it comes to romantic love relationships. They both can connect to a more deeper and passionate level with each other. Many times we meet different People who are not our Soulmate but to help us move forward. This is the reason why it’s never a good idea to go searching for your ideal Soulmate or twin flame. This is the time to let your heart guide you to the one that calls out directly to you and let nature take it’s course. You are destined to be with someone and it doesn’t necessarily have to be your twin flame to find everlasting happiness. TWIN FLAMES THE MIRROR OF OUR SOULS REFLECTION They can feel our deepest emotions and fears along with the needs and etc. many times they are going through what we call the "Runner and Chaser Stage". What is a runner and Chaser dynamic? This is a certain phase that both Twin flames and Soulmates can go through when they are resisting or fearing their own emotional insecurities and issues. Soulmates too can also experience the runner and chaser stage as well as twin flames. Many think it’s only twin flames. The runner can run for sometime, while the chaser will wait for the runner to come back. It’s not necessarily they are chasing them, many don’t like to hear that word that they are chasing. But it’s true, its actually the one that is more aware and awake where the other is not awake yet. There’s many reasons why they run and a list can go on. But the main reason is because they are experiencing a previous fear issues with emotions, abandonment, hurt in love, old wounds and relationships that ended badly. AS THERE ARE SO MANY REASONS WHY THEY RUN, THE HEALING NEEDS TO MANIFEST WITH BOTH RUNNER AND CHASER. Most of the time the runner does not even know why they are running but they’re actually running from something inside themselves. Where the chaser will not understand, if this love is so BEAUTIFUL why are they running? This can lead to the chaser trying to get the runner to see the truth and come back to them. Trying to nudge them with communicate and get their attention (on social media - Facebook, instagram snapchat and etc.), can actually do the opposite effect and make them run further. The runner and Chase are both have to be ready for this divine union. They both are actually in a healing stages that they need to work on themselves simultaneously to perfect their soul centered come together into the divine union. IT IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR BOTH TWINS TO RELEASE AND SURRENDER ANY TYPE OF PAST EMOTIONAL AND OLD WOUNDS. The runner needs to awaken when they are ready. They will be ready to come back to their other half. What if a twin flame runner is in a bad relationship with someone else? As we all have free will and choices, both runner and chasers can be dating and even married to other people. As painful as it may be. This is part of their soul journey and what they need to do in order to work on themselves. Soulmates and twin flames need to work through these issues on their own. The best thing to do is let them find their true center and a awaken when they are open to receive. Predicting a timeframe on when you will meet your true soulmate or twin flame is not advised during a Psychic reading. Since they are very unpredictable and with free will no one can predict the actual times that they do find each other. Especially when there is work that is necessary prior to the divine union. MANY TIMES A TYPICAL NON-SPIRITUAL ENERGY RELATIONSHIP WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE BEFORE YOU MEET "THE ONE" THIS IS A PART OF THEIR SOUL JOURNEY PRIOR TO THEIR UNION. When their levels reflect on one another, they can come bind together as one soul. This will be the ultimate divine soulmate relationship. The twin flame connection will reunite when they are both completely open and ready to be with each other. Divine soulmates in the beginning know that they both have a mission although they may be confused about their feelings. This is all mental perfect and empower their lives that they will become the ultimate divine power couple.

Twin flames go through a very crucial time of releasing and surrendering prior to the reunion.

When they first meet, it is a deep connection that awakens something inside both of them. Automatically things will change at 360 in their lives. They both instantly start to release and surrender in their soul center, flawed energy.

They need to explore this beautiful union deeper, but in order to come to an union, they first need to purify their energy and let go of negativity.

This is where the pain and challenges begin and they may experience separation.

In order for Twin flames to enter into an union, have challenges to get need to pass, but they must first be ready; your spirituality is evolving. Then challenges and issues may arise rapidly.

You may ask why do you have to experience so much pain and suffer, why are Twin flames challenges happening, just to be in a beautiful relationship that is supposed to be full of bliss?

Although it is a true mystery, twin flames challengers is part of the process that helps you to grow and evolve spiritually.

Moving past Twin flames challenges and understanding your own personal flaws by letting go.

When you hear about soulmates, your mind starts to think about a beautiful loving relationship. The truth is that we have more than one divine soul mate that we meet in our lifetime. Many times, they come in for different reasons; some are to help you along the challenges that you face in your life, to reach your authentic higher self. Soulmate Connections share many of the same qualities in us, but they are entirely different people. A divine Soulmate will be on the same page as you, sharing the same believes and understanding you completely. Twin flames enter in our lives to help us work on ourselves. When you first meet your divine Soulmate, you will feel an instant feeling of “déjà vu” as if you have known them all your life, but just met them. They will help you find your true path and come to a divine awakening. There are many soulmates from our past lives and karmic energy that need to be corrected and healed in this lifetime. Divine soulmates can start as a love relationship. Some come to a complete separation after karmic energy connection has been completed and the soul contract has been fulfilled. No one knows why they have to go through some pain in order to find their true center, but this will help you understand and get stronger, so that you can prepare and have an awareness for what is more important and coming into your life. Ego-based energy The ego-based energy can play a huge role with divine partners. When a person is dealing with ego, I can change the relationship right around 360 degrees. This is to help you acknowledge and open your heart to start loving yourself. Divine soulmates can have many different roles in our life. Divine soulmates includes: soulmates, twin flames, twin souls, twin rays, karmic - past life connections. Remember that everyone who enters your life, if it is a negative or positive relationship, if the relationship is short-lived or long-term, this is your soul mate. Soulmates will make an impact in your life to help you fulfill your soul mission in life. Many times, they are here to help complete the healing with one another and offer service to the world. Divine soul mates experience a high level of soul vibration. This is the type of energy that you can feel as soon as your eyes meet. It’s extremely powerful and a magnificent type of connection, especially with twin flames. Twin flames, the power couple When we connect with our twin flame, it usually happens unexpectedly, without understanding it, where we actually come to a divine spiritual awakening. Twin flames don’t awaken at the same time, this causes what we call the Runner and Chaser stages. It is very painful during these phases, there’s a deeper purpose for them to work on themselves, to heal and come to the divine union. When they are energetically working on themselves simultaneously together, they can telepathically communicate; through meditation, reaching one another heart to heart. But not everyone will experience telepathy. Twin flames share source of each other‘s mirroring each other. If there is work that is necessary for you to do, your twin will also need to work on themselves as well. They both need to be equal and ready for the divine union. The Runner and Chaser phases can happen to any of the Soulmate connection group, it’s not just twin flames who experience it. Many times it can take years before they finally come to realize and awaken out of the Runner phase. Runners and Chasers face many challenges and as well as going through tests to get past their life lessons and come together as one. Working and loving yourself is the key for divine soul mates to come into a divine union.

Twin flames at the beginning are faced with separation

Divine soulmates can also go through these phases as well. They both will experience the challenges and complications that can occur during and prior the union.

Because everyone has a very unique and different situation, they all must get past their own trials and tests to fulfill their destiny.

By releasing and surrendering energies that don’t serve purpose. They will come to peace inside their heart so that they can come together with their twin soul.

When you first meet your Divine partner or Twin flame, something magical happens and you both can feel a magnetic energy pull that compels the two of you together.

But though it may not last, there may be work that needs to be done. This is when separation and obstacles enter in your relationship.

The main thing is to be happy with yourself. When you are not content deep inside, you cannot be happy with your Twin flame.

The spiritual union involves certain challenges that Divine Soulmates and Twin flames experience. This may be a very confusing subject on why Twin flames go through these difficulties. I’ve been asked several times about it and I just want to give a little clarity on what exactly they experience. There are many different types of Soulmates, and Twin flame is part of the soul connection Collective. Twin flames go through a very crucial time of releasing and surrendering prior to the reunion. When they first meet, it is a deep connection that awakens something inside both of them. Automatically things will change at 360 in their lives. They both instantly start to release and surrender in their soul center, flawed energy. They need to explore this beautiful union deeper, but in order to come to an union, they first need to purify their energy and let go of negativity. This is where the pain and challenges begin and they may experience separation. In order for Twin flames to enter into an union, they must first be ready; your spirituality is evolving. Then challenges and issues may arise rapidly. You may ask why do you have to experience so much pain and suffer, just to be in a beautiful relationship that is supposed to be full of bliss? Although it is a true mystery but it is part of the process that helps you to grow and evolve spiritually. Moving past these challenges and understanding your own personal flaws by letting go. Twin flames at the beginning are faced with separation, and sadly this can go on for years. They may also be with other people for a while until they find their true calling and true path. Divine soulmates can also go through these phases as well. They both will experience the challenges and complications that can occur during and prior the union. Because everyone has a very unique and different situation, they all must get past their own trials and tests to fulfill their destiny. By releasing and surrendering energies that don’t serve purpose. They will come to peace inside their heart so that they can come together with their twin soul. When you first meet your Divine partner or Twin flame, something magical happens and you both can feel a magnetic energy pull that compels the two of you together. But though it may not last, there may be work that needs to be done. This is when separation and obstacles enter in your relationship. The main thing is to be happy with yourself. When you are not content deep inside, you cannot be happy with your Twin flame. You will feel energies and emotions amplified even higher when you’re with your Twin flame. At the same time, both of you are simultaneously working on yourselves and sending higher vibrations and light to one another. With the energy of love and light. These are the first steps to work with changes on yourself. When you were living a life that involves no type of spirituality, this will create you to feel unhappy and lonely. There is something missing, and clearly this means that you both are not ready for a Divine union. There can be negative and toxic types of discussions and arguments. This is when the both of you need to work through these issues in order to come into harmony. Your Twin flame is the mirror image of yourself and vice versa. But when there is ego in the way, this makes it very difficult for the both of you to see each other as who you are because of the external conflict you both face. This reflection can be an image that you are not ready to see about yourself. All because this has to do with your ego. When you think you are ready, this is when you need to work even that much harder, the both of you will continuously work on yourselves as long as you are on this earth together. In order to come into the high 5D frequency level with your Twin flame. Both of you need to prepare and understand this powerful Divine union. This is all part of a soul mission that you both need to take together on your journey for the next level. Both of you will be going through a series of life lessons along with a combination of tests and trials to help you both heal in order to manifest your connection together into an union. 

You will feel emotions amplified even higher when you’re with your Twin flame.


At the same time, both of you are simultaneously working on yourselves and sending higher vibrations and light to one another.

With the energy of love and light. These are the first steps to work with changes on yourself. When you were living a life that involves no type of spirituality, this will create you to feel unhappy and lonely.

There is something missing, and clearly this means that you both are not ready for a Divine union.

There can be negative and toxic types of discussions and arguments.This is when the both of you need to work through these issues in order to come into harmony.

Your Twin flame is the mirror image of yourself and vice versa. But when there is ego in the way, this makes it very difficult for the both of you to see each other as who you are because of the external conflict you both face.

This reflection can be an image that you are not ready to see about yourself.

This reflection can be an image that you are not ready to see about yourself.

All because this has to do with your ego. When you think you are ready, this is when you need to work even that much harder, the both of you will continuously work on yourselves as long as you are on this earth together.

In order to come into the high 5D frequency level with your Twin flame.The both of you need to prepare and understand this powerful Divine union.

This is all part of a soul mission that you both need to take together on your journey for the next level.

Both of you will be going through a series of life lessons along with a combination of tests and trials to help you both heal in order to manifest your connection together into an union.

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